0 comments for post: "Complications of Relationships" | Posted on 08. 11. by deeberryhill
Have you ever wondered if people really believe the things they say to you?
We will ALWAYS be friends. I will NEVER leave you. Your my BEST friend. I will LOVE you forever. Skip forward a bit and you can see relationships fall apart, lovers leave each other, and people just generally hurt each other by not keeping their word.
I know for me that I have felt the truth of those words that I have said to people at the time that I have said them. I was thinking about that today and realized that I am a person who tries really hard to say what I mean and mean what I say. Of course I know that when I am angry I tend to say a lot of stuff I don’t want to admit to at the time, as I am just either trying to defend myself, get my point across or just hurt someone as I am hurting. So I am not talking about the Ego talk.
I am referring to the talk that allows the other person to be entangled with you emotionally. The type of words that sends the emotions deeper and deeper into a field of togetherness. It doesn’t matter the gender, age or type of relationship with someone when the words are used like a healing salve on an open wound they can impress upon our energies like a comforting blanket or hug. I think that some of our most damaging talk is when we make our own language to ourselves of promises, commitments or some day and then never follow through on them.
What promises or commitments have you made that you didn’t follow through on?